I been with my girl for 2 years and we are recently engaged....
She wants me to take control, talk dirty, and try
new things. I really want to as well but I get scared that I will just
make a fool of myself ... I need to find
the inner beast that she deserves. I guess I love her
so much I am ashamed to try in case I fail. I want insane sex and I
have this amazing sexy girl who wants me and she is willing to let me
fulfill my wildest fantasies and I keep just being boring!
Momma Elle Answers:
Oh dude.... don't get so low... I am here to help!
This is what I want you to do in the next few days with her.... I want
you to plan for sex in a place where you will be alone, and private
because I want you to feel safe to play this out ...ok?
for a private place somewhere and then go up behind her and start
holding her, don't let her turn around, keep her back to you and get all
worked up rubbing up against her, get her all worked up too, pinch her
nipples through her clothes, nip at the back of her neck......
HER TURN AROUND... when you feel that she's ready for you, push her
forward a bit, over a couch or desk (stay outta the bedroom) and with
one hand hold the back of her head by her hair, hold it tight to keep
her kind of leaning forward and down, with your other hand undo her
pants and yours a little (don't take hers or your clothes all the way
off) and then take her, take her from behind while you hold her forward
and away from you.... say something to her about the way her ass looks
against you... remember, sex is for fun, if it gets messed up because
you aren't used to being this way, just laugh about it and have a good
time and try it again another day.... and remember to watch her, watch
and see her reaction to what you are doing....
Please write me back and let me know how my advice turns out...