45% of men are unhappy....

According to the ‘Great Male Survey’ 45% of men are unhappy with their sex lives. It appears that frequency of sex is the main reason that they are unhappy. These men feel that after they leave college and start working, that the frequency of work begins to diminish to the point that nearly half of them are unhappy with their sex lives.

WHAT A TRAGEDY!!!  

Sex is awesome and should be enjoyed regularly 3-4 times a week or more if possible.  Sex connects us to our partner and encourages feelings of affection and security for both.

Many times one partner is not interested in sex at this frequency and that is a problem. If you are in a relationship where your partner has a lower sex drive than you…well this situation can be really difficult and you might have feelings of rejection and anger. This is where communication is most important. You need to explain your feelings and your desires and see if a plan can be worked out for the 2 of you to enjoy sex more often. 

If that cannot be worked out, then you have some really hard questions to ask of yourself and your partner.

Are any of you struggling with this issue? Let me know by sending me your story and/or questions in the ‘Ask me a Question’ page in the right sidebar menu ….

as always, your questions are COMPLETELY ANONYMOUS!