Thanks for asking me this, I bet a lot of partners have this question....
I am happy to help because I want you and your partner to have great sex and you can’t have great sex with such questions banging around in your head! You need the confidence of knowing that what you do excites her, turns her on and brings her to orgasm!
The first thing that I would say to you is, ‘if you have to ask, she probably isn’t’, but no worries because I am here to help you!
This is what I want you to do…plan a time together SOON for the two of you, away from distractions and away from the day. That might be easy or not depending on your situation…but make this happen this week! OK?
Now, plan for a great sex session during this time that you have arranged….when you are together I want you to focus on her, and focus on her sexually. I want you to seduce her and make her get excited about what you are doing!
First, start undressing her, then touch her, everywhere…start focusing on her sensitive places and places that make her moist and excited.
Now start talking to her while you are touching her…tell her how pretty she is, how sexy and pretty her girlie parts are…..then watch her, you are going to watch her and keep watching her for signs of excitement and then orgasm.
This session is not about you right now, this is about you being able to watch her and see what her reactions are to your touching and fondling and then to see if you can tell when she orgasms.
Use your hands and your fingers and your mouth on her sweet soft parts especially the ones that are between her legs, remember her nipples on occasion. I want you to watch to see how moist she gets, as she gets moist, watch and see her reaction to the other things that YOU are doing to her. When she gets moister that means that she is turned on by what you are doing…DO MORE of it! Then keep doing these things and watch for her breath to get more rapid, her body to arch into your hands and mouth, get her to the point that she literally cums in your hands. You will know that she has orgasmed when your hands get really wet from her juices, her breathing gets really quick her body is arching and then, WOW! She cums, your hands are wet, her breathing calms down and she looks satisfied….YOU HAVE TO WATCH for these things….
Now I know that during all of this, you have been really turned on, sorry, this session wasn’t about you really, well it kind of is, but now you hold her, tell her how wonderful it made you feel to watch her, then after 4-5 minutes start touching her again, she will respond…or at least her body will, women can be multi-orgasmic, then when she is getting more excited tell her that you have to be inside her, enter her and finish together….
What this has shown you is how she responds, I want you to touch her until you are convinced that she has cum, this is very important. If she hasn’t been orgasming, then it is very important for you to find this out. She needs to be enjoying and cumming from your lovemaking.
Write me back and tell me how all of this went, you might have had all of your questions answered from this session or you might have a LOT more questions afterwards…
It will be okay, I will help you get this worked out….
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